什么是彼得潘综合症？

彼得潘综合症是由于在成长的过程中，受到创伤或对生活的怀疑而找不到正确解答，产生的一种不愿长大的心理。 它的产生主要与社会和家庭教育环境有关。因此，人们就把这种即使年纪已经很大了，但行动与个性却都还表现得像小孩子的人称为 「彼得潘症候群」患者。

彼得潘综合征该如何治疗？

帮助患者摆脱“彼得·潘综合征”的最好办法是迫使他面对现实，为自己的行为承担后果，因为这类人本身想要自由，觉得周围的人不信任他，但是他自己幼稚的做法无法让人放心，所以需要长时间建立责任感。有些患者已经意识到了，也表示不喜欢目前和过去的一些依赖行为模式，但苦于无法改变。我们可以促其自问：有无改变这些行为的计划或具体方法。有无为自己制定幸福生活的一份清单。如何将这种积极的思维变成现实中的行为。如果能努力将这些积极的思维变成自身的行为，就有可能调动身上沉睡已久的积极力量和能力，从心理问题中解放出来。若总是停留在心有所动却没有实际行动状态，则永远无法改变依赖者的命运。由此可见，走出依赖、等待和幻想的心理陷阱，是走出“彼得·潘综合征”惟一的途径。

电影彼得潘中的经典台词

Peter Pan是著名童话《小飞侠》（改编自英国苏格兰剧作家巴里所著剧本）中的主角彼得·潘(系一永不长大的小孩)。Peter Pan一词在英语字典里的解释还有天真而不懂事的成年人，以及(女装或童装的)小圆领。

彼得潘领来源自彼得潘的经典衣着，这种扁平圆领最初只是用在童装设计中，但自上世纪60年代开始，这种领口的设计开始应用在成年女装之中。在近几季的Chloe、Miu Miu等品牌中更大量使用，简洁大方的PETERPAN圆领是甜美的淑女最爱的领子了，以不同尺寸、大小及搭配方式，为我们表达出了彼得潘圆领的多变特质。

成熟女人如何穿好彼得潘圆领？

●选择如Burberry那种领后高度较高，以及领型变尖的设计的外套，不会显得过于幼稚。

●在彼得潘圆领衬衫外穿上风格硬朗的西装或马甲，能够中和过于幼稚的感觉。1.peter:forgetthem,wendy.forgetthemall.comewithmewhereyou'llnever,neverhavetoworryaboutgrownupthingsagain.

wendy:neverisanawfullylongtime.

2.smee:captain,theiceismelting,thesunisout,andtheflowersareallinbloom...

captainhook:he'sback.

3.wendy:whydoyouhatehimso?

4.pirate:begforyourlives.

john:mybrotherandiareenglishgentlemen.englishgentlemendonotbeg.

[michaelgetsonhisknees]

michael:...please.please.

5.peter:readytolosetheotherone?

captainhook:notthistime.

6.captainhook:[towendy]didstthoueverwanttobeapirate?

7.wendy:wemustleaveatonce...beforewe,inturn,areforgotten.

8.wendy:mightihavetimetoconsideryourgenerousoffer?

captainhook:absolutely.

captainhook:mynewobsessionisyou.

captainhook:noneofmycrewwillfollowyou...iswearit.

wendy:whatwouldmotherthinkofmybecomingapirate?

9.smee:pandidyouafavor,didhe,captain?

captainhook:afavor?hethrewmyhandtoacrocodile,thebeastlikeditsomuch,it'sfollowedmeeversince,lickingitslipsfortherestofme...youcallthatafavor?

10.[wendysewspeter'sshadowtohisfeet]

peter:oh,theclevernessofme.

wendy:ofcourse,ididnothing...

peter:youdidalittle.

wendy:oh,theclevernessofyou.

11.peter:ifyouwishit.

slightly:ifyouwishit?

12.captainhook:ifiwereyou,i'dgiveup.

peter:ifyouwereme,i'dbeugly.

13.peter:idobelieveinfairies,ido,ido.

14.[wendyhasjustbecomethelostboys'mother]

peter:discipline.that'swhatfathersbelievein.wemustspankallofthechildrennowbeforetheytrytokillyouagain.betteryet,weshouldkillthem.

wendy:father.iagreethattheyare...perfectlyhorrid,but...killthemandtheyshouldthinkthemselves...important.

thelostboys:soimportant,peter.

curly:andunique.

wendy:i,however,proposeamuchmorevilepunishment.medicine.thedreadful,sticky,sweetkind.

thelostboys:pleasekillus,peter.

15.wendy:thisbelongstoyou,andalwayswill

peter:iwantalwaystobeaboy,andhavefun.

wendy:yousayso,peter,butithinkitisyourbiggestpretend.

16.wendy:wheredoyou

17.peter:there'smermaids.

wendy:mermaids?

peter:indians.

johnandmichael:indians?

peter:pirates.

johnandmichael:pirates?wahoo.

18.[wendykissespeterpanandhestartstoglow]

19.captainhook:pan...you'repink.

20.wendy:surelyyoumusthavefeltloveonceforsomething...orsomeone.

peter:never.eventhesoundofitoffendsme.

[wendytriestotouchhisface,andhejumpsaway]

peter:whydoyouhavetospoileverything?wehavefun,don'twe?itaughtyoutoflyandtofight.whatmorecouldtherebe?

wendy:thereissomuchmore.

21.peter:[afterbumpinghisheadonwakingup]iwasnotasleep.

22.[peterandwendylandtotalktomermaidstofindjohnandmichael]

wendy:oh,howsweet.

[peterlooksdisgusted]

wendy:what?aremermaidsnotsweet?

peter:they'llsweetlydrownyouifyougettooclose

23.slightly:well...wehaveourorders.shootthewendybird.ready...aim...fire.

24.[peterseesaboyflyingnexttohim,forgettinghehasjustmethimminutesbefore]

peter:whoareyou?

john:i'mjohn.

peter:john.

25.[mr.andmrs.darlingarerushingupthestairs,rightbeforepetertakesthechildrentoneverland]

narrator:itwouldbedelightfultoreportthattheyreachedthenurseryintime...butthen,therewouldbenostory.

26.captainhook:shewasleavingyou.yourwendywasleavingyou.whyshouldshestay?whathaveyoutooffer?youareincomplete.let'stakealookintothefuture,shallwe?youflytowendy'snurseryand...what'sthis?thewindow'sclosed.

peter:i'llopenit.

captainhook:i'mafraidthewindowsbarred.

peter:i'llcallouthername.

captainhook:shecan'thearyou.

peter:no.

captainhook:shecan'tseeyou.

peter:wendy.

captainhook:she'sforgottenallaboutyou.

peter:stopit.please.stopit.

27.[duringaswordfightbetweenpeterandwendy]

tootles:motherandfatherarefightingagain...

28.peter:youbequietori'llbanishyoujustliketink.

wendy:iwillnotbebanished.

peter:thenleave.andtakeyourfeelingswithyou.

29.peter:tolivewouldbeanawfullybigadventure.

30.wendy:peter...ishouldliketogiveyouakiss.

[peterholdshishandout]

wendy:don'tyouknowwhatakissis?

peter:ishallknowwhenyougivemeone.

31.hook:old...alone...donefor.

32.slightly:icouldn'tfindthehouse,andnoweveryonehasamotherbutme.

[onwendybeingtheirmother]

33.slightly:andisn'tshejustfirstclass?

34.slightly:braceyerselveslads.

35.slightly:irememberkisses,letmesee.aye,thatisakiss.apowerfulthing.

36.slightly:thenshemuststayhereanddie.

thelostboysandpeterpan:[gasp]no.

slightly:ofcoursenot.howcouldihavethought?stupid.

[gazingupatwendyandpeterdancinginmid-air]

37.captainhook:oh...peter'sfoundhimselfa...wendy.andhookisallalone.

[hookaskedtigerlilyifshehadseenpeterpan,andshereplieswithaforeignlanguage,andthenspitsathim]

38.smee:shesayssorry,butno.

39.mrs.darling:therearemanydifferentkindsofbravery.there'sthebraveryofthinkingofothersbeforeone'sself.now,yourfatherhasneverbrandishedaswordnor...norfiredapistol,thankheavens.buthehasmademanysacrificesforhisfamily,andputawaymanydreams.

michael:wheredidheputthem?

mrs.darling:heputtheminadrawer.andsometimes,lateatnight,wetakethemoutandadmirethem.butitgetsharderandhardertoclosethedrawer...andhedoes.andthatiswhyheisbrave.

40.captainjameshook:proudandinsolentyouth!preparetomeetthydoom!

smee:it'sallabittragic,really,isn'tit?

41.john:[uponmeetingpeter]youoffendreason,sir.

michael:mm-hmm.

john:[seespeterliftintotheair]ishouldliketooffenditwithyou

42.peter:youcan'tcatchmeandmakemeaman.

43.peter:i'mthebestthereeverwas!

44.peter:sheistotellusstories...shes...

slightly:dead...awful.

45.curly:tragic.

nibs:goodshot,though.

46.mrs.darling:andwhat'syourname?

nibs:nibs.iplanthebattles.

mrs.darling:wouldyoulikeamother,nibs?

nibs:[crying]yes!

47.captainhook:itisyourrequiemmass,boy!

48.captainhook:splitmyinfinitives!

49.captainhook:howlikeagirl!

50.captainhook:sopeterpan,thisisallyourdoing?

peter:ayejameshook,it'sallmydoing.

51.peter:thenyouaremyfriendnomore.

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电影彼得潘中的经典台词。。

1.Peter: Forget them, Wendy. Forget them all. Come with me where you'll never, never have to worry about grown up things again.

Wendy: Never is an awfully long time.

2.Smee: Captain, the ice is melting, the sun is out, and the flowers are all in bloom...

Captain Hook: He's back.

3.Wendy: Why do you hate him so?

4.Pirate: Beg for your lives.

John: My brother and I are English gentlemen. English gentlemen do not beg.

[Michael gets on his knees]

Michael: ...Please. Please.

5.Peter: Ready to lose the other one?

Captain Hook: Not this time.

6.Captain Hook: [to Wendy] Didst thou ever want to be a pirate?

7.Wendy: We must leave at once... before we, in turn, are forgotten.

8.Wendy: Might I have time to consider your generous offer?

Captain Hook: Absolutely.

Captain Hook: My new obsession is you.

Captain Hook: None of my crew will follow you... I swear it.

Wendy: What would mother think of my becoming a pirate?

9.Smee: Pan did you a favor, did he, Captain?

Captain Hook: A favor? He threw my hand to a crocodile, the beast liked it so much, it's followed me ever since, licking its lips for the rest of me... YOU CALL THAT A FAVOR?

10.[Wendy sews Peter's shadow to his feet]

Peter: Oh, the cleverness of me.

Wendy: Of course, I did nothing...

Peter: You did a little.

Wendy: Oh, the cleverness of you.

11.Peter: If you wish it.

Slightly: If you wish it?

12.Captain Hook: If I were you, I'd give up.

Peter: If you were me, I'd be ugly.

13.Peter: I do believe in fairies, I do, I do.

14.[Wendy has just become the Lost Boys' mother]

Peter: Discipline. That's what fathers believe in. We must spank all of the children now before they try to kill you again. Better yet, we should kill them.

Wendy: Father. I agree that they are... perfectly horrid, but... kill them and they should think themselves... important.

The Lost Boys: So important, Peter.

Curly: And unique.

Wendy: I, however, propose a much more vile punishment. Medicine. The dreadful, sticky, sweet kind.

The Lost Boys: Please kill us, Peter.

15.Wendy: This belongs to you, and always will

Peter: I want always to be a boy, and have fun.

Wendy: You say so, Peter, but I think it is your biggest pretend.

16.Wendy: Where do you

17.Peter: There's mermaids.

Wendy: Mermaids?

Peter: Indians.

John and Michael: Indians?

Peter: Pirates.

John and Michael: Pirates? Wahoo.

18.[Wendy kisses Peter Pan and he starts to glow]

19.Captain Hook: Pan... you're pink.

20.Wendy: Surely you must have felt love once for something... or someone.

Peter: Never. Even the sound of it offends me.

[Wendy tries to touch his face, and he jumps away]

Peter: Why do you have to spoil everything? We have fun, don't we? I taught you to fly and to fight. What more could there be?

Wendy: There is so much more.

21.Peter: [after bumping his head on waking up] I was not asleep.

22.[Peter and Wendy land to talk to mermaids to find John and Michael]

Wendy: Oh, How sweet.

[Peter looks disgusted]

Wendy: What? Are mermaids not sweet?

Peter: They'll sweetly drown you if you get too close

23.Slightly: Well... we have our orders. Shoot the Wendy bird. Ready... Aim... FIRE.

24.[Peter sees a boy flying next to him, forgetting he has just met him minutes before]

Peter: Who are you?

John: I'm John.

Peter: John.

25.[Mr. and Mrs. Darling are rushing up the stairs, right before Peter takes the children to Neverland]

Narrator: It would be delightful to report that they reached the nursery in time... but then, there would be no story.

26.Captain Hook: She was leaving you. Your Wendy was leaving you. Why should she stay? What have you to offer? You are incomplete. Let's take a look into the future, shall we? You fly to Wendy's nursery and... what's this? The window's closed.

Peter: I'll open it.

Captain Hook: I'm afraid the windows barred.

Peter: I'll call out her name.

Captain Hook: She can't hear you.

Peter: No.

Captain Hook: She can't see you.

Peter: Wendy.

Captain Hook: She's forgotten all about you.

Peter: Stop it. Please. Stop it.

27.[During a swordfight between Peter and Wendy]

Tootles: Mother and father are fighting again...

28.Peter: You be quiet or I'll banish you just like Tink.

Wendy: I WILL NOT BE BANISHED.

Peter: Then leave. And take your feelings with you.

29.Peter: To live would be an awfully big adventure.

30.Wendy: Peter... I should like to give you a kiss.

[Peter holds his hand out]

Wendy: Don't you know what a kiss is?

Peter: I shall know when you give me one.

31.Hook: Old... Alone... Done for.

32.Slightly: I couldn't find the house, and now everyone has a mother but me.

[On Wendy being their mother]

33.Slightly: And isn't she just first class?

34.Slightly: Brace yerselves lads.

35.Slightly: I remember kisses, let me see. Aye, that is a kiss. A powerful thing.

36.Slightly: Then she must stay here and die.

The Lost Boys and Peter Pan: [gasp] No.

Slightly: Of course not. How could I have thought? Stupid.

[gazing up at Wendy and Peter dancing in mid-air]

37.Captain Hook: Oh... Peter's found himself a... Wendy. And Hook is all alone.

[Hook asked Tiger Lily if she had seen Peter Pan, and she replies with a foreign language, and then spits at him]

38.Smee: She says sorry, but no.

39.Mrs. Darling: There are many different kinds of bravery. There's the bravery of thinking of others before one's self. Now, your father has never brandished a sword nor... nor fired a pistol, thank heavens. But he has made many sacrifices for his family, and put away many dreams.

Michael: Where did he put them?

Mrs. Darling: He put them in a drawer. And sometimes, late at night, we take them out and admire them. But it gets harder and harder to close the drawer... and he does. And that is why he is brave.

40.Captain James Hook: Proud and insolent youth! Prepare to meet thy doom!

Smee: It's all a bit tragic, really, isn't it?

41.John: [upon meeting Peter] You offend reason, sir.

Michael: Mm-hmm.

John: [sees Peter lift into the air] I should like to offend it with you

42.Peter: You can't catch me and make me a man.

43.Peter: I'm the best there ever was!

44.Peter: She is to tell us stories... SHES...

Slightly: Dead... awful.

45.Curly: Tragic.

Nibs: Good shot, though.

46.Mrs. Darling: And what's your name?

Nibs: Nibs. I plan the battles.

Mrs. Darling: Would you like a mother, Nibs?

Nibs: [crying] Yes!

47.Captain Hook: It is your requiem mass, boy!

48.Captain Hook: Split my infinitives!

49.Captain Hook: How like a girl!

50.Captain Hook: So Peter Pan, this is all your doing?

Peter: Aye James Hook, it's all my doing.

51.Peter: Then you are my friend no more.

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