一、很多关系，不是老的好也不是新的好，而是一起经历了一些事之后，你还真切的觉得对方挺好，这才是值得你，去认真对待和掏心窝子的关系。

Many relationships, not old or new, but after some experience together, you really feel that the other party is very good, which is worth you, to seriously deal with and dig into the heart of the relationship.

二、有时候，我们活得很累，并非生活过于刻薄，而是我们太容易被外界的氛围所感染，被他人的情绪所左右。其实你是活给自己看的，没有多少人能够把你留在心上。

Sometimes, we live very tired, not too mean life, but we are too easy to be infected by the outside atmosphere, by other people's emotions. In fact, you are living for yourself, not many people can keep you in mind.

三、不开心的事情要定期清除，那样才有储存快乐的空间。没有过不去的事情，只有过不去的心情，所以，心一定要多点晴朗，活着不是靠心情，而是靠心态。

Unhappy things need to be cleared regularly so that there is room for happiness. There is no thing that can't be passed, only the mood that can't be passed, so the heart must be more sunny, live not by mood, but by mentality.

四、时光就像个大筛子，经得起过滤，自以为玩的不错的好友，也许并不是你想象得那样好，只有经过时间的检验，日久见人心，最后留下来的，才是真正的朋友。

Time is like a big sieve, which can withstand filtering and think it's a good friend to play with. Maybe it's not as good as you think. Only after the test of time, people will see each other for a long time, and finally stay, is the real friend.

五、有喜有悲才是人生，有苦有甜才是生活。无论是繁华还是苍凉，看过的风景就不要太留恋，毕竟你不前行生活还要前行。

Happiness and sorrow are life, bitterness and sweetness are life. Whether it's busy or desolate, don't be too nostalgic about the scenery you've seen. After all, you have to move on if you don't move on.

六、不要执着于令自己痛苦的事物，不要去惦记再也回不去的曾经。过去既然那么让人绝望，人总是要往前走的，有些事，放弃得越早，未来就会越好。

Don't stick to the things that make you miserable, don't think about the past that you can't go back. Since the past is so desperate, people always have to go forward. Some things, the sooner you give up, the better the future will be.

七、人生的旅途中，总有那么一段时间，需要你自己走，自己扛。不要感觉害怕，不要感觉孤单，这只不过是成长的代价。

In the journey of life, there is always a time when you need to go and carry it by yourself. Don't feel afraid, don't feel lonely, it's just the price of growth.

八、时间最会骗人，但也能让你明白，这世界上是没有什么不能失去的！离去的都是风景，留下的才是人生，走到最后的，才是对的人。

Time is the most deceptive, but also let you understand that there is nothing in the world that can not be lost! What we leave is the scenery, what we leave is life, and what we get to the end is the right person.

九、人生就是一列开往坟墓的列车，路途上会有很多站，很难有人可以自始至终陪着走完。当陪你的人要下车时，即使不舍，也该心存感激，然后挥手道别。

Life is a train to the grave. There will be many stops on the way. It's very difficult for anyone to walk with him all the time. When someone with you wants to get out of the car, even if you don't give up, you should be grateful and wave goodbye.

十、所有你曾经哭过的事，多少年之后，你一定会笑着说出来，然后骂自己一句：当初真的好傻，其实人生没有那么多的烦恼，时间会解决一切，好好爱自己。

All the things you have cried about, how many years later, you will laugh and say, and then scold yourself: at first really silly, in fact, there are not so many troubles in life, time will solve everything, love yourself.

十一、在这个世界上，没有人真正可以对另一个人的伤痛感同身受。你万箭穿心，你痛不欲生，也仅仅是你一个人的事，别人也许会同情，也许会嗟叹，但永远不会清楚你伤口究竟溃烂到何种境地。

In this world, no one can really feel the pain of another person. You have a thousand arrows piercing your heart. You are in great pain. It's just your own business. Others may sympathize with you or sigh, but you never know exactly where your wound is festering.

十二、我们最大的悲哀，是迷茫地走在路上，看不到前面的希望；我们最坏的习惯，是苟安于当下生活，不知道明天的方向。

Our greatest sorrow is to walk in confusion without seeing the hope ahead; our worst habit is to live in the present without knowing the direction of tomorrow.

十三、不必太纠结于当下，也不必太忧虑未来，当你经历过一些事情的时候，眼前的风景已经和从前不一样了。

Don't be too obsessed with the present or worry about the future. When you experience something, the scenery is different from the past.

十四、人生本来就没有相欠，别人对你付出，是因为别人喜欢，你对别人付出，是因为自己甘愿。情出自愿，事过无悔。

Life is not owed, others pay you, because others like, you pay others, because you are willing to. Voluntary feelings, no regrets.

十五、人生就像不停在用的铅笔，开始很尖，但慢慢的就磨的圆滑了。不过，太过圆滑了，就差不多又该挨削了。

Life is like a pencil that keeps on using. It starts sharp, but slowly rubs smoothly. But it's too smooth, and it's almost time to be cut again.

十六、人生，有多少计较，就有多少痛苦；有多少宽容，就有多少欢乐。计较的心如同口袋，宽容的心犹如漏斗。复杂的心爱计较，简单的心易快乐。

Life, how much to care about, how much pain; how much tolerance, how much joy. A calculating heart is like a pocket, and a tolerant heart is like a funnel. Complicated love calculation, simple heart easy to be happy.

十七、心态不好，人生易老。有什么样的心，你就是什么样的人。人，不怕容颜沧桑，就怕心的苍老。

Mentality is not good, life is easy to grow old. What kind of heart, you are what kind of person. People are not afraid of vicissitudes of life, they are afraid of the old heart.

十八、金钱再多也无法阻止死亡，长相再美也不能讨好阎王，声名再大也要经过生死。因此人生不要太贪，不要活得太累。

No amount of money can stop death, no amount of beauty can please the King of Yan, and no amount of fame can go through life and death. So don't be too greedy, don't live too tired.

十九、选择任何一种生活方式，都有得有失。所以，不用羡慕什么，也不用抱怨什么。你所能做的，只是保持身体和内心的平衡。

There are gains and losses in choosing any way of life. So don't envy or complain. All you can do is keep your body and mind in balance.

二十、人生苦短，世事无常。何必事事那么在乎，更不必处处那么计较。人这一辈子，不过百年，没必要过分苛求什么，苛求太多，烦恼就多，奢望太多，痛苦更甚。

Life is short and things are changeable. Why do you care so much about everything, not to mention everywhere? In one's lifetime, however, there is no need to be excessively demanding, demanding too much, worrying too much, expecting too much, and suffering even more.